Dear India, I have a question ?


While the Gurugram is still healing from the riots in and around it, I was driven back from office to my home, by my cab driver, who happens to be from the religious minority community. I checked with him whether streets are still reeling with the sense of fear, or the world around us has normalised. We sitting in cozy offices and posh homes are sometimes so disconnected that we end up being largely dependent on Social Media and NEWS platforms, while the people like my cab driver and other helps, face the real world. He mentioned minor cases in and around the city that he got to know, but nothing serious. While our conversations traversed into a long silence, I had a question to myself, for which I didn’t have any answers. So INDIA, I have a question and can you answer it to me ?

What if, while driven back home, I am attacked by a mob of frenzied majoritarians, what should I do ? They would attack our car, and at best we can beg them to please let us go. They still might let me go, credits to majoritarian identity I am born in. But they would attack fiercely on my cab driver, on just being a minority identified through his name, his guise or items he may hold. Who knows they might not trust me as well with my religion and may ask for proofs like displaying an ID Cards, by chanting any religious chant or in the worst case, may be showing my cut/uncut genitals. Well, the probability of me getting saved is much higher than my cab driver though. He would be thrashed, beaten unto death and worse. While the timid in me might think of taking advantage of my majoritarian background and runaway. But the morality in me would not allow me to leave my driver and see him getting killed in front of me, just because of his identity? If I run away, I might stay alive, but trust me, I would never be able to live with myself longer and will be dead from inside. And If I fight, might with might to save my fellow human, I would surely be dead with a proud soul but a bereaved family.

I can choose to run away and seek help through the Police, but would they be able to help me and my fellow Indian ? Firstly, I believe a Police or a Military can fiercely fight Kasab like group of terrorists, because the purpose is to save fellow countrymen and even after several gunfires, they are equipped to kill these few terrorists. But no Police/Military in the world is equipped to take on a frenzied mob in a civil war, because of their large numbers, they being their own countrymen themselves, and most times with similar religious identity as well. Also, even if the Police strictly follow the law of the land, they are scared because the mob always has the tacit support of the majoritarian government. Leaving them aside, I cannot even seek help from fellow bystanders, as they like me would be rather timid and choose to stay blind. Moreover, am I also even capable of providing my cab driver and his family justice, posthumously? Neither I have legal acumen, money or political muscle to take the violent mob to gallows, nor I would take up the vigilante route and end up being another form of revenge mob.

Sadly and unfortunately the mob does not even have a face. They are zombies driven by political powers, fueled by the media, have a body but remain faceless. The sloth-like justice system is also not equipped as per me to punish faceless rioters.
And if any of you even dare to suggest, that avoid being around any minority community, then please go and see a psychiatrist.


Nonetheless, I am out of options here, if that ever happens to me, or to you maybe, we would end up just being a count of people died during a hate crime (thanks to recent normalisation of such acts). While some in media are looking for a final violent solution, I ask you… Can you save me, my fellow Indians and my India ?

Proud of Your Religion! But Why?


I have always been keen to dwell into the mind-set of anyone, who says, I am a proud Hindu, Muslim or Christian etc.! Most of us haven’t chosen our religion and were just destined to born into one. Moreover, it’s our parents and people around us who train us to follow a particular faith, again not by choice but destiny.

The counter-argument I have received is, that one should be proud of our parents, country and by extending the logic, religion too. Yes, we were just destined to born into our families and country, like our religion. But, unlike one’s particular religion, our parents and country nurtured our childhood. Parents through sacrifices groomed us with values, and the country through governance facilitated us with infrastructure. Religion prospers nobody, as Parents and Country does!

Then, people would argue, that the religion helps us learn values through spirituality. But then, every religion does the same! Then why gratification towards a particular religion, and calling oneself a “Proud Hindu” or “Proud Muslim” etc.?

Also, if anyone considers his/her religion superior to others (basis mythology and history), then that’s sheer communalism. One cannot be both “Proud Hindu / Muslim” and “Secular”. Such non-pluralistic views can be scary for a secular democracy.

Every religion preaches similar morals and principals, and each one of us should respect all religions!

Thus, are you proud of religion? But Why?

Why India is NOT Pakistan?


India and Pakistan both got independence from British in 1947. Both countries born together had one struggle for freedom, one civilization, and one culture. Yet after 66 years of each other’s independence, both the countries are poles apart, both economically and socially. As famously George Bush quoted, “I explained that Pakistan and India are different countries with different needs and different histories”!

But have we ever thought of reasons behind this anomaly between the two countries, which were years ago so similar, but today completely contradictory?

I have tried dwelling upon few reasons from our history in last 66 years. Here are the following:

Visionary Leaders –

India had assembly of great leaders in 1947, whose visions helped in defining India’s roadmap to recreate an exemplary civilization. Unlike Pakistan, India was lucky to have wise and compassionate leaders like Jawahar Lal Nehru, Sardar Patel, Maulana Azad, B R Ambedkar, S.Radhakrishnan, Lal Bahadur Shastri etc. All these leaders were groomed under Mahatma Gandhi and thus always valued the importance of upholding the “Dharma” (Justice). All these leaders valued the sacrifices of Bhagat Singh, Chandrasekhar Azad, Ashfaqulla Khan, Ram Prasad Bismil etc. and thus vowed to craft India a great Nation.

On the other hand, Pakistan’s Muhammad Ali Jinnah lacked both vision and wisdom. He could not create next crop of leaders nor was able to inspire fellow countrymen.

Non-Aligned Movement –

Those were days of Cold War between USA and Russia, and all the Third-World countries were aligning themselves to the either superpower. Non-aligned Movement led by Jawahar Lal Nehru with other world leaders, decided to not formally align or go against any major power blocs. Such entrepreneurial and hyperopic foreign policy helped India gain huge respect among the world leaders across geographies.

Unlike India, Pakistan chose to get associated with USA and its allies, to receive favors from the economic and military powerhouse. Today after so many years, where India is now highly self-dependent, Pakistan has ended up being a pet of USA (and also China). Pakistan’s impatience to grow faster by aligning itself to USA landed it nowhere. Whereas India grew slowly but surely, leaving Pakistan laps behind in the economic race.

Secularism –

Where Pakistan slowly turned into an Islamic country and treated minorities as second grade citizens, India chose “Secularism”. India respected people of all faiths and beliefs, allowing everyone to co-exist in harmony. Pakistan’s transformation into an Islamic country ended up mushrooming powerful religious leaders, which led to rise in terrorism and religious extremism.

India, on the other hand, kept a strict check on right-wing extremism of the majority, and also protected minorities through equal justice and supportive policies. Indian governments didn’t allowed India to become a Hindu-Pakistan, and kept restoring the faith of minorities during difficult times.

Equality among Democratic Pillars –

India always ensured equilibrium among all the democratic pillars of democracy which are Judiciary, Legislative, Executive, Military and Media. None of the five pillars was neither allowed to interfere, nor allowed to overpower another pillar. Although being parallel, all the pillars of democracy worked collectively to take India to newer of heights of being a great democracy.

Pakistan, failed in maintaining this equilibrium, and thus allowing the Military, several times, to overpower all other pillars of democracy. Pakistan had seen several coups by their Military leaders and even today, none of the other pillars had yet challenged its supremacy.

Beyond these key aspects, in last 66 years, India had been through several conflicts and issues. Issues ranged from leadership issues to secularism turned appeasement issues to pillow-fights between democratic pillars to feeble foreign policy issues etc. Yet we all have always been able to overcome all the problems, thanks to our fore-fathers, fellow Indians and leaders. We may come across several new conflicts in our near and distant future. But I am confident, that we “The Indians” will be able to solve all the existing and forthcoming problems amicably. Though sometimes slowly, but surely!

I would conclude by sharing this famous quote, “By travelling alone, we can go faster. But by travelling together, we can go farther!”

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