Dear India, I have a question ?


While the Gurugram is still healing from the riots in and around it, I was driven back from office to my home, by my cab driver, who happens to be from the religious minority community. I checked with him whether streets are still reeling with the sense of fear, or the world around us has normalised. We sitting in cozy offices and posh homes are sometimes so disconnected that we end up being largely dependent on Social Media and NEWS platforms, while the people like my cab driver and other helps, face the real world. He mentioned minor cases in and around the city that he got to know, but nothing serious. While our conversations traversed into a long silence, I had a question to myself, for which I didn’t have any answers. So INDIA, I have a question and can you answer it to me ?

What if, while driven back home, I am attacked by a mob of frenzied majoritarians, what should I do ? They would attack our car, and at best we can beg them to please let us go. They still might let me go, credits to majoritarian identity I am born in. But they would attack fiercely on my cab driver, on just being a minority identified through his name, his guise or items he may hold. Who knows they might not trust me as well with my religion and may ask for proofs like displaying an ID Cards, by chanting any religious chant or in the worst case, may be showing my cut/uncut genitals. Well, the probability of me getting saved is much higher than my cab driver though. He would be thrashed, beaten unto death and worse. While the timid in me might think of taking advantage of my majoritarian background and runaway. But the morality in me would not allow me to leave my driver and see him getting killed in front of me, just because of his identity? If I run away, I might stay alive, but trust me, I would never be able to live with myself longer and will be dead from inside. And If I fight, might with might to save my fellow human, I would surely be dead with a proud soul but a bereaved family.

I can choose to run away and seek help through the Police, but would they be able to help me and my fellow Indian ? Firstly, I believe a Police or a Military can fiercely fight Kasab like group of terrorists, because the purpose is to save fellow countrymen and even after several gunfires, they are equipped to kill these few terrorists. But no Police/Military in the world is equipped to take on a frenzied mob in a civil war, because of their large numbers, they being their own countrymen themselves, and most times with similar religious identity as well. Also, even if the Police strictly follow the law of the land, they are scared because the mob always has the tacit support of the majoritarian government. Leaving them aside, I cannot even seek help from fellow bystanders, as they like me would be rather timid and choose to stay blind. Moreover, am I also even capable of providing my cab driver and his family justice, posthumously? Neither I have legal acumen, money or political muscle to take the violent mob to gallows, nor I would take up the vigilante route and end up being another form of revenge mob.

Sadly and unfortunately the mob does not even have a face. They are zombies driven by political powers, fueled by the media, have a body but remain faceless. The sloth-like justice system is also not equipped as per me to punish faceless rioters.
And if any of you even dare to suggest, that avoid being around any minority community, then please go and see a psychiatrist.


Nonetheless, I am out of options here, if that ever happens to me, or to you maybe, we would end up just being a count of people died during a hate crime (thanks to recent normalisation of such acts). While some in media are looking for a final violent solution, I ask you… Can you save me, my fellow Indians and my India ?

“The Lower Berth” !


While everyone was busy dressing-up their berths for the night’s sleep, I hesitantly requested them, “Can any of you please swap your lower berth with us? My mother wouldn’t be able climb to middle or upper berths.” And I heard a deafening silence! Many of you may have experienced the similar silence, while traveling through Indian Railways. I have had many, and it was one of those nights.

Before reaching to those “Herds of Men”, I have had made several attempts, reaching out to individuals asking for their treasured lower berth, but in vain. That uncle in blue-shirt said no, “I need to go to toilet several times, thus I can’t”! Considering his age, he sounded genuine. While the young hunks stared, I asked a young girl, “Can you”? She had a slip-disk problem, and thus she couldn’t too. I dared not asking that old women. She was lucky to get a reserved lower berth through the hara-kiri of online reservations. After several failed attempts and variety of excuses, this group of mid-aged men was my last resort in our compartment. I was expecting atleast one of those blank faces to break the silence.

Meanwhile, I was reading exasperation in my mother’s drooling eyes. My mother was sheepishly hiding herself, behind that young girl with slip-disk issue. She atleast cared enough to offer her a seat on her cherished lower berth. Today, my mother’s old-age has made her dependent on fellow travelers’ mercy. In her prime, she was a fit, active, hard-working and an empathetic woman, who lived her life with utmost dignity. But now, in her last couple of miles, she was witnessing lowered sense of core values, empathy, respect and chivalry. To her, it looked like a race to the “Lowest Berth”!

The train was about to leave its platform, and my eyes were still stuck on those men. Especially towards the man who was having his late dinner. Unlike others, he looked mighty strong and well-built to showcase his chivalry. And yes he responded before anyone did, “If no one turns up, I will”! He looked condescendingly to all men around him, and repeated the golden words, “If no one around here swaps your seat, then I will. Your mother is like my mother”! His impactful last dialogue, though filmy, reignited my faith in humanity, which was lost minutes ago. He said, “Give me 5mins, let me finish my dinner, and then let’s swap”! I thanked him, and was thankful to almighty, as I finally discovered someone (with 56-inch chest), chivalrous enough to honor my mother’s problem.

With the newly find hope, 5mins later, I went to see that man. He was done with his dinner and was casually lying on his berth. I asked, “Can we swap our berths now”? He lazily responded, “But now, I have already lied down on my berth”. I reaffirmed, “So now you can’t swap”? I felt robbed when he uttered, “No”! Though I have always been appreciated for my composure and patience, I must admit, I was about to lose it this time. His kind words spoken minutes ago now seemed a sham.

Suddenly to my surprise, the man next to his berth stood up, and said, “I will swap. What are your seat numbers”? This heavy bellied man went straight away, with me, to my seat with his baggage and stuff. Meanwhile, I prepared bed for my mother on her newly discovered lower berth, and allowed her rest her tired body. In the heat of things, I couldn’t thank that man instantaneously. I did show my gratitude later, and he chose to respond through his benevolent smile and with a “Silence”.

Action speaks louder than words! And sometimes, silence is more meaningful than rosy words! Next time, if you see someone, especially elders, in need or despair, help them. It may rejuvenate and re-assure them, that human values are still not swirling down to the “Lowest Berth”!

P.S. On my return trip, voluntarily swapped my Lower Berth with an old lady. Hope our good deeds get accumulated, to contribute in providing a better life to our loved ones!

My Remonstrance with Contemporary Journalism !


With the emergence of Television and Digital platforms in last 10 years, I expected more from Indian News Media, but I stand disappointed. I am disappointed because, even after inclusion of newer technologies and heavy investments, our news channels have not milked the benefits in right direction. In the era of fierce competition of making profits, news channels have lowered their standards of content creation and reporting, their outreach and journalistic code of conducts.

Frog in the Well

Today’s journalists are such lazybones, that we end up watching news only from urban India. None of the news channels today have journalists or teams to cover issues of labors and farmers.  Thus effectively, news from 70% of India is neither reported nor even considered by today’s news channels. English News Channels cover stories (pun intended) only from metros/capitals or of major events. And Hindi News Media is busy serving their audiences with either crime reports or entertainment. Even election surveys are merely confined to urban population. We would never get to know how the rural India (actual voters) actually feels, before D-Day of election arrives.

Obsession with Headlines

Gone were the days, when we used to see news reports and features on relevant topics. Today either we end up seeing only speed news or debates. Investigative journalism and reporting seems to be out of fashion. Journalists are out there seeking bites from the news-makers, more so to create headlines. We rarely see these days any documentaries or news reports illustrating all existing on-ground perspectives.  Journalists have turned into vultures, news-makers being their prey, looking for controversial statements or key words to create headlines; and further stretching the issue through irrelevant debates and featured stories.

Opinionated Anchors

News anchor’s role in any discussion is to merely moderate the debate and help bring out all the perspectives. A news anchor has to project him/her as non-partisan and free from any prejudices. But in an era, where debates are equated with popular journalism, news anchors push their views and ridicule counter-viewpoints or perspectives. Though journalists are entitles to have a personal viewpoint, but that can only be exemplified through editorials and not through news or debates.

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